Shannon L. Alder

Quotes

• “There are no coincidences in life. What person that wandered in and out of your life was there for some purpose, even if...”
• “Sometimes the best and worst times of your life can coincide. It is a talent of the soul to discover the joy in pain—-th...”
• “I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’r...”
• “There will always be someone willing to hurt you, put you down, gossip about you, belittle your accomplishments and judg...”
• “Reputation is what others think of us; character is what God knows of us. When you have spent what feels like eternity t...”
• “When you look at the past without God’s eyes, you subject yourself to deception. The past no longer exists and God doesn...”
• “If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you ...”
• “Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-esteem or immorality. I...”
• “God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your sto...”
• “The wise do not buy into other people’s perceptions of who they are and what they are capable of. Instead, they bypass a...”
• “An open Facebook page is simply a psychiatric dry erase board that screams, “Look at me. I am insecure. I need your reac...”
• “Never rearrange your life in order to meet Mr. Darcy half way. If he couldn’t see your worth at the moment you met then ...”
• “Never let your fear of the unknown and things being too difficult make your choices for you in life. One of the saddest ...”
• “Often people that settle in life are those that only do what they can with what they have and where they are. Never sett...”
• “There are only two ways to live your life. One as if all that matters is to have someone love and accept you. The other ...”
• “A Plan B life can be just as good or better than a Plan A life. You just have to let go of that first dream and realize ...”
• “You will never find the real truth among people that are insecure or have egos to protect. Truth over time becomes eithe...”
• “I rather spend every Sunday of my life hanging off a cliff to rescue someone than spend one more time sitting in a pew n...”
• “When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will have peace despite reje...”
• “Two people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It's like sitting in a boat and neither one has an oar to...”
• “My father taught me that you can you read a hundred books on wisdom and write a hundred books on wisdom, but unless you ...”
• “Fear is to begin with the end in mind. There is no end. Life is eternal. Live life knowing that the end was your past, a...”
• “Time is too swift for those who fear, too long for those who wait, too short for those who finally find peace, but for t...”
• “Of all the questions I have asked my readers this is the most important: What would you do if you weren't afraid? When y...”
• “When you are joyful, when you say yes to life and have fun and project positivity all around you, you become a sun in th...”
• “Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured by finally letting go. ...”
• “You can have regret from yesterday, fear tomorrow, but peace today by sharing your heart’s deepest feelings. A life spen...”
• “When you see people only as personalities, rather than souls with life missions to fulfill, you forever limit the growth...”
• “Betrayal is an ironic thing. He or she betrays you then you betray yourself. You think you’re showing strength with your...”
• “A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class ...”
• “If you were born with the ability to change someone’s perspective or emotions, never waste that gift. It is one of the m...”
• “After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If yo...”
• “When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, "What was...”
• “The mind knows the truth when your heart denies what it feels. When you don't feel safe to let people in, it is because ...”
• “If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing...”
• “If life didn’t give you at least one person not wanting you to succeed then half of us would lose are motivation to clim...”
• “Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, wh...”
• “Your attachment to unhealthy people and bad habits, which offer you no real control, is why you’re spiritually dying and...”
• “When someone you love says goodbye you can stare long and hard at the door they closed and forget to see all the doors G...”
• “The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't being said. The art of reading between the lines is a li...”
• “Your greatest responsibility in your life is to be the best version of yourself. When you feel for what the soul believe...”
• “Every quote is like a Picasso. The meaning is different for each person and half the admirers miss the true intent and t...”
• “The most intriguing people you will encounter in this life are the people who had insights about you, that you didn't kn...”
• “The battle you are going through is not fueled by the words or actions of others; it is fueled by the mind that gives it...”
• “God is perceived by the heart, not by your reason. But what is reason? Your heart simplifying God’s guidance to fit your...”
• “Every game is winnable if you change your mind about what the prize should be and your perspective about the players at ...”
• “Spiritual pain is when you can’t stand another moment not knowing the real truth, and when you finally do know you can’t...”
• “Often romantic relationships fail because you are trying to get someone to fall in love with the YOU that you never disc...”
• “The moon will guide you through the night with her brightness, but she will always dwell in the darkness, in order to be...”
• “Carve your name on hearts, not tombstones. A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stories they share about ...”