Shannon L. Alder

Quotes

• “Introspective souls are often tormented by their passionate visions. This is because visionaries see what shall be and w...”
• “Empowered Women 101: Everyone wants to be a princess, but you weren't the first princess in his life. They scrubbed his ...”
• “God doesn’t give us pain to make us strong. He gives us strength to look inside ourselves and realize we are not innocen...”
• “Satan will always whisper don't care, be silent, you didn't do anything wrong, your better than them, your stronger than...”
• “I will never be someone's last choice, second option, narcissistic supply, doormat, ego booster, sidekick, secret, last ...”
• “What I find predictable is crazy people's ability to predict that unpredictable people can be predicted by their consist...”
• “Empowered Women 101: If he’s with you, it’s a given that he finds you attractive. Don’t talk him out of his attraction b...”
• “Your love life is insignificant when it comes to raising your children to be respectable human beings. The moment you se...”
• “Expectations are nothing more than the rules we set, in order to maintain our ego and self esteem. What we seek from oth...”
• “If it were true love, he would never make you sacrifice your dignity to be with him. He would respect you and treat you ...”
• “Why do women waste their time trying to convince their insecure family members and girlfriends that they are beautiful? ...”
• “There comes a time in your life when you can no longer put off choosing. You have to choose one path or the other. You c...”
• “God whispered, "You endured a lot. For that I am truly sorry, but grateful. I needed you to struggle to help so many. Th...”
• “Often people that tell others they are "extremely polite" when the situation calls for tact and bluntness are not actual...”
• “The real warriors in this world are the ones that see the details of another's soul. They see the transparency behind wa...”
• “Empowering Women 101: Every woman thinks they are the special person that was forordained to change a man. Do you really...”
• “You don't have to apologize for loving someone or wanting a life that no longer fits your blueprint. The beginning phase...”
• “People with anxiety and trust issues find themselves drawn to people of consistency because they feel safe with someone ...”
• “I have known friendship love, parental love, romantic love, family love and unrequited love in my life time, but the onl...”
• “People often tell themselves lies, in order to reach what they consider acceptance in difficult situations. In reality, ...”
• “More often than not, people who are obsessed with their desires and feelings are generally unhappier in life vs. people ...”
• “Having dignity doesn't require you to fall out of love with someone. You can love someone your entire life and not been ...”
• “If you want to be a good parent then be a great leader. You should live a life with passion for someone and something. T...”
• “Letting go of people doesn’t mean you never loved them. Sometimes, it is the greatest act of love because it teaches the...”
• “Every person with ADHD already knows that destination addiction is part of their disorder. However, if it doesn’t have a...”
• “Your body is a temple, not a daily dumping ground for another person’s pain, anger, betrayal, judgment, hypocrisy, denia...”
• “Too many people spend their life in fear of making a mistake. However, here is the truth: Fear is the mistake. If you bl...”
• “Often people that say they “don’t care” actually do. The moment they discuss you with their friends and family, compete ...”
• “The good part about having a mental disorder is having a valid reason for all the stupid things we do because of a damag...”
• “To have a different life you have be a different person. You have to do what you haven't done. You have to become the pe...”
• “We live in a world that has so many people striving to look normal to a bunch of people that are abnormal, in order to b...”
• “Empowered Women 101: A confident and faithful woman that loves herself and knows what she is capable of creating will at...”
• “Unrequited love is the only emotion that allows sane people to taste the “life sentence” of someone with bipolar disorde...”
• “Sometimes your inability to let go has nothing to do with real love and everything to do with what that person represent...”
• “God never uses one approach to the get his job done in the world. Each soul has its own way of being reached. He has put...”
• “Empowering Women 101: If a normal man wants you he will let you know. You won't have to guess. He will move mountains to...”
• “You are not an option, a choice or a soft place to land after a long battle. You were meant to be the one. If you can wr...”
• “Arrogance is someone claiming to have come to Christ, but they won't spend more than five minutes listening to your jour...”
• “You're going to come across some truly gifted people in your lifetime that seem to know all the answers. However, they l...”
• “It wasn’t because you weren’t beautiful, talented, funny, creative or had everything in common. It was because some men ...”
• “Maybe, the question isn't who will look good by your side, who will make these days less dull, who will bring you the gr...”
• “The problem will never be diversity, the challenging of tradition or the one person that questions the way life should b...”
• “It is a wonderful thing to be liked by a stranger, but without respect it is pointless. It is like pulling the pedals of...”
• “Mental illness is not a fraternity or a social club for like minds. It is its own religion to each person that has it. T...”
• “But here is the thing about anger: People hold onto it because letting go means dealing with pain. It is a coping strate...”
• “If I could be anything in this world I would be rare. So rare that the people I loved never forgot me or ever found anyt...”
• “We don’t yet have a body of scientific knowledge about evil to be called a facet of psychology. Therefore, religious rea...”
• “Sometimes, it is easier for people to believe lies then deal with the uncomfortableness of their own fear of action. The...”
• “Gratitude was never a noun; it's secretly a verb. It is not a place you accept defeat, settle in for broken dreams or ca...”
• “If all you do is set goals and achieve them then you have learned to be a doer. Happiness isn’t at the end of the next g...”